{"id":92014,"date":"2017-12-02T09:34:00","date_gmt":"2017-12-02T09:34:00","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2023-01-06T20:53:51","modified_gmt":"2023-01-06T20:53:51","slug":"in-honor-of-his-bride","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cvnextjob.com\/index.php\/2017\/12\/02\/in-honor-of-his-bride\/","title":{"rendered":"In Honor of His Bride"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><h3 class=\"post-title entry-title\" itemprop=\"name\"><\/h3>\n<div class=\"post-header\"> <\/div>\n<p>Technical Sergeant Israel Del Toro dreamed of giving his wife, Carmen,  the big church wedding and reception she always dreamed of.<\/p>\n<p>But  events in Afghanistan put those plans on hold. Four years ago, Sergeant  Del Toro, an Air Force joint terminal attack controller (JTAC) was  critically wounded by an improvised explosive device. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.airforcetimes.com\/news\/2009\/08\/airforce_deltoro_082109\/\"><em>Air Force Times<\/em> writer Patrick Winn recounted the attack<\/a>&#8211;and Del Toro&#8217;s struggle to survive:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\">&#8220;We had just crossed a creek when I felt that blast,&#8221; he said. &#8220;That heat blast I&#8217;ll never forget.&#8221; <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\">Del  Toro recalls crawling, fiery and smoking, into the dirt. And then,  limping on [Army Lieutenant Brian] Findley&#8217;s arm, sinking into the  nearby stream to cool his cooking insides.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\">His flesh hissed like water in a skillet. He heard ammo in the Humvee he had been riding in begin to crackle and explode.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\">He  went cold and strained to breath, struggled to mouth the code words  used to alert airlift medics over half-fried communications gear. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\">Here, Del Toro&#8217;s recollections begin to dim in and out. Stay awake, Findley begged. Remember your kid, D.T.?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\">A helicopter ride. At the hospital, the doctor cutting loose his favorite watch. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\">Then, three months of darkness. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>But  that was only the beginning of Sergeant Del Toro&#8217;s ordeal. Over the  months that followed, he made a near-miraculous recovery from his  wounds&#8211;including burns over 80% of his body&#8211;with his wife by his side.  As he continues a long and difficult rehabilitation, TSgt Del Toro is  also fighting to stay in the Air Force. The consequences of his injuries  will prevent him from serving as a JTAC in the field, but Del Toro  believes he can still make a contribution. He&#8217;s not a man who easily  gives up, or forgets a promise.<\/p>\n<p>Which brings us back to that  wedding reception near Chicago. The event contained at least two  surprises, according to press accounts. Via video, Singer Richard Marx  performed Carmen&#8217;s favorite song, &#8220;Right Here Waiting,&#8221; and dedicated it  to the couple. And members of the Idlewild Country Club in Flosmoor,  Illinois (where the reception was held) quietly picked up the $15,000  tab.<\/p>\n<p>If the <em>Air Force Times<\/em> article is correct, there  wasn&#8217;t a dry eye in the house when Sergeant Del Toro led his bride onto  the dance floor. And rightfully so.<br \/>***<br \/>ADDENDUM:  Call us  cynical, but as we read the story of Technical Sergeant Del Toro&#8217;  struggle to live, we thought of that infamous &#8220;End of Life&#8221; guide, now  in use by the Veteran&#8217;s Administration.  Thank God such documents aren&#8217;t  used in the treatment of our wounded warriors.  We found it a bit  ironic that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/story\/0,2933,541820,00.html\">Assistant VA Secretary Tammy Duckworth (a former Army helicoper pilot who suffered life-threatening injuries in Iraq<\/a>)  was trotted out to defend the recent re-introduction of the  decision-making guide.  Had such a document been in use when Captain  Duckworth and TSgt Del Toro returned from the battlefield, it&#8217;s quite  possible that neither of them would be with us today.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Technical Sergeant Israel Del Toro dreamed of giving his wife, Carmen, the big church wedding and reception she always dreamed of. But events in Afghanistan put those plans on hold. Four years ago, Sergeant Del Toro, an Air Force joint terminal attack controller (JTAC) was critically wounded by an improvised explosive device. 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